https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DZ8O2tJOGLE&t=378s
According to the above video which tests a variety of brake pads on an actual industry-approved brake pad testing machine, under testing standard procedures, and does other tests,
OEM pads consistently delivered the best results. Good aftermarket pads are also good. Obviously they didn't test every pad of the bazillion brand pads out there, so that doesn't mean Wagner Premiums are bad, or another brand. It is what it is. But beware, when oners claim "These are the best pads and I know 100% for sure!" well, what are they comparing that to?? IDK. I've tried many different pads out there, but obviously not all. Nobody has. But there are many good pads which I'm sure will provide you 'good' braking.
Akebono premium pads were supposedly the OEM supplier/pads for Ram trucks. Or, at least that was true when I checked like 1.5yrs ago. You can search it out. So....if you want presumably the best ...as shown by a brake pad dyno (OEM)...I'd consider spending more and going Mopar Pads, or the Akebono pads. But
NOT the Mopar Value Line. The value line is not the same.
That said, I've used lots of different pads over the yrs and I can't say I've had terrible braking with any of the 'better' pads out there. Except, in the rust belt where I live OReilly Pads...they brake ok, BUT, the backing plate rusts quick and flakes off the friction material in a few years. Then you can get metal on metal and screw up an aluminum wheel from sparks embedding into the clearcoat! Sure they warrany the pads, but you still have to go change them, and fix the wheel. Pads which have 'fingers' AND adhesive seem to hold better...and ones which use a more expensive yellow cadnium plating, hold up better than powercoated pads, in the rust belt. For those guys in the rust-belt.
As for ceramics, I've installed ceramic pads in place of semi-metallics and had the same issue you had, in two instances. It felt like I lost 30% braking. They were Napa Premium Ceramics (this goes back quite a few years, so that may not be true today). Lower dust, but terrible braking. But ceramic pads in systems designed for ceramic pads I haven't had issues.
So there you go... information you can quickly disregard and buy the cheaper pads with the skimpy swimsuit-wearing-lady on the box.. LOL. In short IDK which pads are "the BEST" even though I've tried MANY brands over the yrs (usually the premium grade of a certain brand) ..and they all seemed to work fine. Try to find some non-powdercoated pads (Yellow Cad plated if you can) and finger-pressed-on since you live in NJ. Semi-Metallic, low dust. You're still going to get dust, but at least you'll stop well. Obviously every mfgr says theirs are the best and here's 20 reasons why. Buy a premium pad from a better mfgr and you should be fine.
...And now every expert is going to promote their pet-pads...and here we go!